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    6 Ways Your Phone Is Rewiring Your Brain (And Not in a Cute Way)

    Your phone is amazing. It wakes you up, entertains you, answers your questions, tracks your steps, delivers food, and—most importantly—lets you watch strangers organize their refrigerators at 2 a.m. But while your phone is busy making your life more convenient, it’s also doing something a little less adorable: it’s quietly rewiring your brain. Not in a “you’re becoming a genius” kind of way. More like a “you opened your phone to check one thing, and now it’s 47 minutes later, and you don’t know who you are anymore” kind of way. Let’s talk about it. 1. Your Attention Span Is…

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    10 Ways Your Brain Is Basically Gaslighting You (And You Fall for It Every Time)

    You would expect your brain, your constant companion, decision-maker, and internal storyteller, to be looking out for your best interests. To be fair, it makes an attempt. However, it has developed several negative behaviors, such as distorting reality, bypassing information, and making you feel like the problem. In other words, your brain is a gaslighter. Not in a malevolent, villain-twirling-mustache manner. More like a well-meaning but completely untrustworthy friend who claims, “No, you definitely locked the door,” just before you spend 20 minutes spiraling in the parking lot. The strange thing is that the majority of these mental tricks are…